Today (although by the time you read this, a couple of weeks will have elapsed), my husband was out walking the dog. He slipped and fell on some ice and ended up with a 2” laceration in his forehead and a hairline fracture in his scapula. While I am grateful the damage wasn’t worse, still he will be out of commission for at least the next month. Means more on my plate. For example, I just got back from the transfer station. There is very little home trash pick up in Mammoth Lakes, so the municipal district charges us for …
8 signs you’re secretly a witch
Ever had that sneaking suspicion that you might be just a little bit magical? Maybe you don’t cackle over a bubbling cauldron (or maybe you do—I’m not judging), but there are certain signs that suggest you might be a witch… or at least witch-adjacent. Here’s how to tell if you’ve got a little extra magic in your life! 1. Your house smells like a potion shop Candles, essential oils, incense—if someone walks into your home and immediately asks, “What’s that smell?” and you have no fewer than six possible answers (lavender, sage, vanilla, “I don’t know, but it was on …
Toolkit for Challenging Times
No matter what your political leanings, nothing about the past month can have been easy. From the liberal (not a dirty word, no matter what you’ve been told) side of the house, we mourn as human rights crash and burn. From the conservative side, many people feel cheated that the new administration isn’t doing what they said they would. In truth, the slash and burn approach to dealing with governmental agencies they don’t understand or appreciate has been painful to observe. Especially, as they try to rehire essential staff…ones responsible for containing bird flu and the nation’s nuclear codes, among …
It’s that time of year. Time to start anew.
I don’t think of New Year’s Day as a time of new beginnings. For me, it’s spring when the trees are budding and the weather begins to warm up. There’s a scent in the air that makes me feel like anything is possible. It’s fabulous. It’s magical. It’s the time of year to get rid of the cobwebs of winter and dreary days and make plans to kick some ass. I’m a list maker. It makes me feel safe. LOL Never have I ever completed all of the items on my list, but that’s just a reason to make a …
Acceptance and Flexibility
I have always been one of those disgustingly healthy women. Never mind how old I am, but let’s just say I’ve managed to slither through many decades with robust health…until I got cancer. There’s something about hearing the words, “you have cancer,” that’s life-changing. If I’ve learned anything through these last four years, it’s been to savor the moment and not get lost in a future I cannot control. I’ve been a psychologist for a very long time. Used to urge my patients not to get too far ahead of the curve and to remain in today. (insert eye roll) …
To Do Lists & Overwhelm
Happy Friday people! Do you ever have one of those days when it seems like you forgotten everything you’re supposed to do and suddenly you find a whole plate load of stuff dumped in your lap?Yeah, today’s like that. I don’t have those often, but sometimes life just gets away from me and I find myself swimming upstream just to keep in place. (Think Red Queen running-in-place analogy). Anyway, what do you do when things are overwhelming? Here are a few tips: I sit down and make a list of everything I forgot. Of everything that’s supposed to be done. …
Romance your inner main character
February isn’t just about romance—it’s also the perfect time to focus on self-love. Paranormal heroines, with their fierce independence and magical journeys, have plenty to teach us about embracing our power and loving ourselves first. Take Ivy Hearst, my ghost-seeing amateur sleuth, for example. Her journey in the Sleepy Hollow Mysteries series isn’t just about solving crimes—it’s about discovering who she is and learning to trust herself. Here are a few self-love lessons inspired by strong, paranormal heroines: Set boundaries like Rosie – Just as a witch casts a protective circle, you can set boundaries to protect your energy and …
How Much Social Media Is TOO Much?
So…as a writer, where should I hang out? Let’s see… Facebook…Twi–I mean “X” *eyeroll*…Threads…YouTube…Myspace…Instagram…Snapchat…Live Journal…Bluesky…Pinterest…etc., etc., etc.. (Yes, I had a Myspace page at one time, and a Live Journal). It’s all too much. Anymore, it feels like it feels like we have to be everywhere, or we’re going to miss out. FOMO: you know what it is. The fear of missing out. If we aren’t everywhere, we’re going to miss out on readers, we’re going to miss out on news, we’re going to miss out on sales…on friendships…on drama…gossip…and that leads to overwhelm, overwork, and panic. It seems silly, …
Be Your Own Valentine: Self-Care Tips for Stressed-Out Readers and Writers
Self-love and self-care are more important than ever, and February, the month of love, feels like the perfect time to talk about why we should be our own Valentine. Whether you’re an author struggling with creativity and deadlines or a reader trying to escape the chaos of the world, stress can take a toll. So, let’s talk about ways to treat yourself, reduce stress, and maintain your sanity. Stay Connected (But Wisely) 📱 Reach out to real friends through phone calls, video chats, texts, or even a well-timed meme. If you can, get lunch or plan an in-person visit. While …
Harnessing lunar magic in your reading life
As witches and book lovers, we know that the moon’s phases influence our energy, emotions, and intentions. Why not bring that same lunar magic into your reading life? Aligning your reading habits with the moon’s cycles can transform your literary journey into a mindful and enchanting practice. Here’s how to work with the moon’s phases to create a reading practice infused with intention and magic: Use the new moon to set your reading intentions The new moon is a time for beginnings and fresh starts. It’s the perfect phase to: Build momentum during the waxing moon As the moon grows, …
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