February isn’t just about romance—it’s also the perfect time to focus on self-love. Paranormal heroines, with their fierce independence and magical journeys, have plenty to teach us about embracing our power and loving ourselves first.
Take Ivy Hearst, my ghost-seeing amateur sleuth, for example. Her journey in the Sleepy Hollow Mysteries series isn’t just about solving crimes—it’s about discovering who she is and learning to trust herself.
Here are a few self-love lessons inspired by strong, paranormal heroines:
Set boundaries like Rosie – Just as a witch casts a protective circle, you can set boundaries to protect your energy and well-being. Don’t be afraid to say no to things that drain you and yes to things that uplift you. Stand up for yourself and your beliefs like Rosie from my Mosswood series.
Embrace your strength like Buffy Summers – Whether it’s actual magic or a talent you’re passionate about, let your strengths shine. Celebrate your uniqueness and recognize your abilities so that you can kick ass just like Buffy!
Learn from the past like Sookie – Many heroines, from witches to vampire hunters, have troubled pasts, but they move forward and grow stronger. Your past experiences shape you, but they don’t have to limit your future. Be able to own your mistakes and grow from them, like Sookie does when overcoming everything life throws in her path.
Find strength in community like Sabrina – Even the most independent heroines find power in their covens, friends, and allies. Surround yourself with those who uplift you, the way Sabrina the Teenage Witch’s friends support her!
This Valentine’s Day, take a page from their book and celebrate yourself—because self-love is the foundation of every great adventure. Who’s your favourite sassy main character?
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